Why is it that when we don’t live up to someone’s expectations we are tagged as a loser. A no-gooder. You become the person who will never succeed in life suddenly. One minute you have a joyful grin on your face and the next you are reminded of all your shortcomings. You become a person who will bring shame to the family, who should end up as an old maid, coz come on! Why should anyone be a loser’s partner?